How Can I Tell If My Dog Is Playing or Fighting?

I have trained and worked in animal care as well as in career advising. I live in Lancashire, in the UK.

Owners of single dogs or people who don't own dogs are often worried when they see dogs play fighting because there is a lot of noise and a lot of visible teeth.

It is helpful to know when your dog is playing nicely and when your dog is being either a bit over the top with another dog or being roughhoused and would rather have the game stopped.

The play bow is the classic initiating signal for dogs wanting to play. A play bow is where a dog lowers its front legs and raises its bottom in the air. The tail is usually up and may be waving. It is a manoeuvre that says 'everything I do from now on is a game'. It can mean that a dog who is normally dominant may play at being the submissive one or that all the dogs in the game can show their teeth without the others mistaking it for real aggression.

In play there will usually be some role reversal, so whilst one dog may spend more of the time on the floor rolled on its back, the other will sometimes offer itself as the victim. A dog who is skillful at playing who is in the dominant role will give other other one plenty of opportunities to get up if it's been rolled on the floor.

Bob the terrier performs a play bow

Playing Indoors

In the video which follows, you can see that when Bob the terrier and Bruno the labrador play, their mouths stay open a lot of the time. Although there is a lot of showing of teeth, it is play aggression and there is no biting. The dogs also use their bodies a lot, barging and pushing each other. Bob happily turns his back on Bruno, which wouldn't happen if they were fighting or Bob was feeling uncomfortable with the game.

There is a low key growly moany sound from Bruno, but this is ongoing and at a steady level, so it's indicative of a game.

Terrier and Labrador Playing

Playing Outdoors

It can be hard to monitor what is going on when dogs are playing outdoors because the action can move very fast. Chase games usually involve dogs alternating between being chased and being the chaser. Some dogs love being chased and may usually take this role. A dog who is happy to be chased will usually have its tail curved down, but held slightly away from its body. If the dog being chased tucks its tail between its legs, it has become unhappy with the game and it is time for the owners to intervene. Running games can also involve dogs keeping pace with each other and body barging and sparring with their teeth, but all at high speed!

In the first picture below, a glance at the show of teeth could alarm you, but the snarls are made with very open mouths and the postures are relaxed with Jake's tail lowered away from his body. Even though these two are ill-matched size-wise, they are still able to play well together. In the second picture, you can see Roger, enjoying the thrill of being chased; he is running at full pelt. Jake, able to run much faster, has modified his pace to run behind him.

Roger (Terrier Cross) and Jake (Groenendael) Play Chase

Note Jake's tail, which is lowered, but held away from the body.

End the Game

Every so often, a game will turn a little intense or one dog will start to feel intimidated and tuck its tail in or be bowled over once too often. It's time for the owner to step in and recall or distract the dogs, give them a little break and then allow the game to resume when they have been calm for five minutes. Play is really fun for dogs and a dog who is initially rough at playing can learn to modify its behaviour simply by the owner stepping in to stop the game when it becomes too rough. The reward for appropriate playing is longer play time, which is a win-win situation for the dogs having fun and the owners being entertained by the antics.

Behavioural Cues to Help You Sort Playing From Fighting

PlayingTime to end the gameFighting

Action initiated by a play bow

Intensity of noise increases

Snarling reaches a crescendo

Mouths showing teeth but mostly kept open

Tail of one individual tucked between its legs

Dogs locked onto one another attempting to shake the opponent

The larger or stronger dog allows the other opportunities to get up if rolled on the floor.

No opportunity for the weaker dog to recover or get up

Losing dog is held on floor by the throat

Role reversal - the participants swap roles during the game

One dog is repeatedly bowled over

Teeth showing but mostly clenched or biting

b-ageless from Toronto, Ontario, Canada on February 17, 2014:

Good read , informative , helpful. Thanks! I've had a yorkie and black lab who were great together,she[yorkie] thought she was the boss though., he was good with her. I don't remember seeing a lot of the behavior you mention, some of it is amusing yet informative. I now have a belgian malinois, who was a rescue, he's great around family, but we have to keep an eye on him with other dogs or sometimes people. I just joined, was happy to see that got on almost immediately.

Bajazid from Sarajevo, Bosnia on April 07, 2013:

Very useful hub. I like the table at the end the most. I recognize all the signals and learn some new regarding dogs' behaviour.

Thanks a lot!

Nettlemere (author) from Burnley, Lancashire, UK on March 24, 2013:

Thank you THEmikeLO, I'm glad you found it interesting.

THEmikeLO on February 28, 2013:

Amazing hub! This was jam packed with useful information that both non pet and pet owners can benefit from! Great work.

Nettlemere (author) from Burnley, Lancashire, UK on December 04, 2012:

Thank you jantamaya - they make an odd couple, but they have a lot of fun playing together.

Maria Janta-Cooper from UK on December 04, 2012:

I liked the video most! They seem to like each other :) very much. Voted up and shared.

Nettlemere (author) from Burnley, Lancashire, UK on October 24, 2012:

I bet your JR and Malinois give you endless amusement with their antics - it's interesting that they should be such good friends despite the size difference, very much like my dogs Jake and Roger in the picture. Have you had them both since they were puppies?

KDuBarry03 on October 24, 2012:

My Malinois and Jack Russel play all the time and they will for hours on end; they even play hide and seek with each other! What's really interesting is that wolves also play fight in the same matter. Definitely very interesting how other species spend their recreational time. Thank you for bringing some more insights onto it. Voted up and shared!

pollobowl from North Carolina on August 15, 2012:

Good information! My 90lb dog and my 16lb dog love to play rough, and it always makes people nervous when they first see it because of the difference in their size. I know they're playing but after reading this I can tell others the differences to look for between playing and fighting!

toomuchmint on July 11, 2012:

Great information! This is a useful hub even for non-pet owners. Pet owners can develop a sixth-sense for when their dogs are fighting or playing. For the rest of us park-goers, dog play can seem intimidating or worrisome.

This is a great guide to judge whether growling toothy dogs are playing, or whether it's time to move to a new park bench.

Voted up and interesting. Thanks for sharing.

Michelle Simtoco from Cebu, Philippines on March 20, 2012:

I think this information is very helpful so it will help alleviate one's fears. Understanding animal behavior is one such key.

Congratulations on your Hubnuggets nomination. Do head this way to read and vote

Marcy Goodfleisch from Planet Earth on March 19, 2012:

You've included some very specific ways to identify behaviors; the chart you posted is very interesting! I have often wondered whether a dog (one unfamiliar to me) was getting out of control, and I remember that those owners who were knowledgeable could tell me whether they were playing or not.

Congratulations on being nominated for a HubNugget award, and welcome to this site!

Dubuquedogtrainer from Dubuque, Iowa on March 17, 2012:

Excellent hub! You did a good job on this difficult subject! Voted up!

Nettlemere (author) from Burnley, Lancashire, UK on March 17, 2012:

Interesting point Ciel. I've known some dogs who get quite distressed when humans start playing in a rough sort of way, but others who join in. It's certainly possible to encourage most dogs to play with you by mimicking their play bow -as the great video (not mine) of a man playing with his great dane shows My own dogs understand a very diluted playbow from me - a mere raising of the eyebrows and slight head duck.

Ciel Clark from USA on March 16, 2012:

I wonder if dogs know when we are playing or fighting! We have one pretty calm dog who does start leaping around and barking if people in the house are wrestling.

Good information, and nice hub.

Nettlemere (author) from Burnley, Lancashire, UK on February 25, 2012:

Thank you - I only realised not everyone could tell the difference because people would ask me if my dogs were playing or fighting - so I had a think about how I knew. With humans, I really can't always tell what's playing and what's fighting!

Angel Caleb Santos from Hampton Roads, Virginia on February 24, 2012:

Great hub. Thanks for sharing. It pays to know your dogs and what they are doing. Voted up!

Mary Craig from New York on February 24, 2012:

Good information. A lot of people can't tell the difference between fighting and playing but if you know your own dog you can tell, it's the other dogs you have to learn to read. Voted up.

NetBlots from Melbourne on February 24, 2012:

That's a fantastic hub! I never actually realized this was an issue because I've always had sixth sense for these kinds of things.

We have two security dogs (German Shepherd & Dobermann), who both play fight with a tiny Shiba Inu. It's really hilarious, when there is a bone around, she will fight both of them off, but any other time the big ones are either lying on their backs play fighting or just bowling each other over!

Thanks heaps =)

How can you tell if neck biting between dogs is too rough?

We have two dogs. One is a 4 year old male and the other is a new dog we adopted over a week ago who is a 2 year old female. They are both the same breed (Alaskan husky) and roughly the same size.

So far, the dogs are getting along fairly well. They've had a few fights but it's usually over bones and we're training them now to share.

My main concern now is about when they play. They both enjoy playing, and when we watch them play, I do not see any signs in the female that she's not having fun (she doesn't look at us, she reengages when he lets up, no raised hair, etc.) but my male dog likes to bite her throat and push her around in circles on the ground. Sometimes it looks like he is actually biting her throat very hard. On one occasion where the dogs were on a hard floor, I could actually feel my male dog's teeth grinding against the female dog's throat. I read that if dogs are playing nicely, you should not break it up, but I am worried that my male dog is biting too hard.

How can I tell if he bites her neck too hard? Should I break up their play when ever he bites her neck or should I continue to only look for the signs and let them play otherwise?

Dogs can show trust by bringing you items that need "fixing."

Michelle L. Szydlowski, veterinary technician and an anthrozoology instructor at Beacon College in Leesburg, Florida, told Insider that some dogs show trust in their owners by presenting them with "broken" objects.

"Some dogs will show their affection for you and faith in your intelligence by bringing you items that need 'fixing,'" said Szydlowski.

For example, Szydlowski said that a dog may bring its owner a dead animal or broken toy and whine for the owner to "solve the problem."

Remove children from the area and keep crowds of people away. It's best if there are two people (ideally the dogs' owners) involved in breaking up the fight. All other people should step far away.

If available, spraying them down can be considered.

  • Spray water from a garden hose at the heads of the dogs. Aim specifically for the eyes and nose of the more aggressive dog, if possible. A bucket or spray bottle filled with water may be less effective but is worth a try if you don't have access to a hose.
  • Citronella spray like Spray Shield or vinegar spray in the face may break up a less-intense fight but usually not the worst fights. Dog owners may consider carrying citronella spray with them. Dogs really dislike the smell and it could offer a brief distraction. In fact, many veterinary experts recommend citronella sprays over pepper spray. It may be just as effective and doesn't have potentially harmful effects. Pepper spray and CO2 fire extinguishers have been suggested but really should only be used as a last resort as they can cause damage to a dog's eyes, skin and mucous membranes not to mention potentially harm people nearby.

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